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It is with both sadness and celebration that we announce the passing of Lorraine Helen Pilaar, who departed this life on November 7, 2026, at the age of 81. Born on February 7, 1945, in Paterson, New Jersey, she was the daughter of the late Alfred Gallo, Sr. and Dorothy Powers Gallo. Lorraine was a vibrant spirit whose love for life and adventure touched everyone around her.
She was married to William John Pilaar on October 19, 1963. He preceded her in death in 1998.
Lorraine's life was marked by her dedication to family and community. She was a proud member of the Church Bt the Beach in Chincoteague Island, Virginia, where she found joy and fellowship among friends. Lorraine's zest for life shone brightly through her many travel adventures, from cherished trips to tropical islands to memorable cruises with her late husband William John Pilaar, celebrating anniversaries filled with love. She relished her time spent playing bingo and enjoyed the excitement of trips to Atlantic City, New Jersey, where she would often test her luck at the slots and tables.
Professionally, Lorraine made her mark as a Travel Coordinator at AAA in Northern New Jersey, where she shared her passion for travel with countless clients, helping them create their own unforgettable experiences. After her retirement, she embraced the beauty of Chincoteague Island, creating new memories in a place that she adored.
Lorraine is survived by her loving daughter, Bernadene Stammer of Chincoteague, VA, and her beloved grandchildren: Brienna Ribner of Baltimore, Gavin Stammer and Elanna Stammer both of Chincoteague; three great grandchildren: Addison, Victoria and Emma: one brother Alfred Gallo, Jr. and his wife Catherine of Toms River, NJ; and one sister Kathleen Stark of Hampton, NJ.
In addition to her parents and her husband, she was preceded death by a son, Craig William Pilaar.
As we remember Lorraine, let us hold fast to her spirit of adventure, love for family, and unwavering faith-a legacy that will live on in the hearts of all who knew her.
Services will be private and at the convenience of the family.
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